The Structure of Energy Healing
Can't Forgive? - What Karma are you Creating? Try Breaking the Cycle!
‘They who forgive most shall be most forgiven’ - Josiah Bailey
Balancing male and female energy fields is one of the fastest ways to gain self awareness which then leads on to self realization. As you reform old physical, emotional, mental and spiritual P.E.M.S. male and female structures, you become perfectly aligned with the planet which is now releasing these same old paradigms, as it repositions itself into higher consciousness.
CAN’T FORGIVE? - WHAT KARMA ARE YOU CREATING? TRY BREAKING THE CYCLE!
By Kay Urlich
Last year I spent time with a woman called Karen just before she passed away. She was very upset and felt guilty because even though she was dying, she was still unable to forgive her parents for the beatings she had suffered as an unwanted, only child. She spoke of the loneliness she had endured and the deep sadness she still felt remembering the hard times her family had shared. Karen wanted to do ’the right thing’ and forgive her parents, so that she could leave this world without the baggage she had accumulated in this lifetime.
Karen felt like many people I meet who are highly motivated to shift their energy and forgive. Using the best intentions in the world however they are unable to do this, they cannot truly forgive because they are still stuck in the energies that attach them to this life.
The energies that keep us stuck in this time and space go with us into our next life as ‘Karma’ and most karma flows through families. I believe it is the continuing compliance to the old energy structures and their environmental factors that is continuing the ‘hereditary characteristics’ that affect not only our personalities, but also the structure of our DNA
WE ARE BORN INNOCENT AND PERFECT BUT DRAGGING KARMIC BAGGAGE IN OUR WAKE.
Then through the unconscious programming and choices that have been made for generations, we keep on reviving the same energetic patterns and reliving the old stories, out of disordered templates. For instance, if our grandparents suffered cancer or heart disease, it is probably caused by imbalance within the male and female energy structure held within their bodies, minds and spirit. Not only that, but this dis-ease is carried on through family patterns into the next generation and further generations after that.
THIS HAPPENS NOT ONLY WITH FAMILIES, IT IS STRUCTURED INTO THE SOCIETY’S WE LIVE IN TOO
We are born with an inborn compliance that aids our survival, which also cements a child's particular personality traits, mental habits and illnesses. A husband's behavior affects his wife and likewise. Children naturally soak up the energy patterns of their parents. And the energy we are exposed to early in life affects our health as an adult and we take this out into the world we live in.
Many Doctors and Psychiatrists call the mental health issues that spring forth from family members ‘chemical imbalances in the brain’ and say they are determined by hereditary or genetic factors, but this is only half true.
Through the unconscious programming and choices made by many generations of our ancestors, (and didn’t they do well, because they survived and we are here!) we are part of the chain that keeps reviving and living the same old stories, using the same old coping mechanisms out of the same rusty old energetic templates.
It is these energetic factors that affect the chemical imbalances, which determine our hereditary factors and our DNA.
IS IT TIME TO CHANGE FROM OLD SURVIVAL PATTERNS?
To improve on many generations of survival patterns, as free, independent and conscious adults, we have the power to bring profound shifts to our energetic environment and amend many hereditary factors; we can begin promoting our true unrealized potential. Karen understood this and with forgiveness, wanted to break the old unhappy cycle.
She did not want to pass negative ‘survival energy’ on to her teenage children, then have them pass it on to the grandchildren she would never see. She decided to make positive changes to her energy fields and include her children in this, knowing then that many of the changes they made would create new structures and have a clear flow on effect into future generations.
TO LET GO THESE OLD HEREDITARY PATTERNS KAREN DID NOT NEED TO FORGIVE SO MUCH, AS TO FIND AND UNDERSTAND – ENERGETICALLY - THE DYNAMICS OF THE FORCES THAT SHE WAS STUCK IN!
Going straight to forgiveness was too difficult. Karen was battling extreme energetic pressures from within. When she tried to forgive her parents she would become overwhelmed by the many emotions she had lived with for so long, emotions such as anger and resentment that were attached to her physiologically.
Over our lifetime we develop physical, emotional, mental and spiritual P.E.M.S. energetic forms that protect our gentle loving self as we survive and grow into our environment. We developed deep patterns of love and hate, anger and concern toward those who have had the most influence over us. Then, like Karen when we try to forgive and move on from the past, the old forms rise up throughout our P.E.M.S. bodies. We then think we have failed. Wondering why we can’t be like Mother Teresa or Gandhi, and forgive the people who have not only loved and cared for us, but hurt us deeply.
WE CAN MAKE CHANGES TO OUR KARMIC PATTERNS, BY RELEASING THE DEPLY INGRAINED *PHYSIOLOGICAL FORMS HELD WITHIN OUR ENERGY STRUCTURE *more information about these forms in the October 2010 issue
We then support change within ourselves by learning how ‘to be soft’ within our old patterns. We do this by simply ‘staying with’ the energy that is rising. Instead of reacting to the old forms that try to retain their position; to overwhelm us and drag us back into anger, resentment and lack from our childhood. We ‘stay with’ the feelings of vulnerability that frighten us the most. It is here that we find the gentlest aspects of our soul. This is the part of us that when we ‘be’, is responding, beginning to reappear as it first came into the world open and innocent.
You do this by…
- First, acknowledge the pain you are feeling.
This means that when unpleasant memories and sensations arise, STAY WITH AND ACKNOWLEDGE THE FEELINGS. Take small steps at first by being aware of how you feel. Don’t go shopping, grab a cigarette or a drink, watch television, have sex or get up and do some exercise. Don’t even try to feel better. …. just continue to acknowledge how you feel….
Sad, despairing, you may feel the worst you have ever felt in your life. Because this may be the first time you have ever let your true feelings out.
Then when you are ready to go deeper… Just sink in and stay with it. Like sitting in a rocky leaking boat being thrown all over the ocean, stay with the boat and ride out the wave; you might be hanging on to the sides, fearful of where its taking you, but stay with it!
If you cannot do this at first, just go gently as far as you can everyday. The most important thing right now is to take small steps on a daily basis
- Secondly, validate the feelings.
The fearful sensations that arise are true for you, so VALIDATE THEM! Usually we do anything to avoid these messages from our body, mind or spirit by blaming our self or somebody else. This is not about blaming anyone. The painful physical, emotional, mental or spiritual feelings we experience are probably the most authentic moments we have, so acknowledge them.
Instead of spending the day hiding from your true feelings, catch these authentic moments and validate them, because they are real for you.
- Thirdly, experience these moments. Truly experience how you feel.
Allow yourself to breath, MAKE IT OKAY TO FEEL LIKE THIS! Stay ‘with yourself’ as the emotions arise unwanted and when you least expect them. Allow the sensations to flow without reacting to anger, shame and the many anxieties that tumble out, often, at the worst of times. The more you support the changing consciousness within your energy fields, the more you are in the ‘allowance’ that helps you let go of the old Karmic forces. Know that the pain will pass.
When you allow yourself to simply breathe and be with these emotions, you do not give more energy to old forms that made up this life; you are reframing the blueprint of energy forces within yourself, and beginning to change your life.
TIME DOES NOT HEAL WOUNDS, TIME JUST SUBMERGES THE ENERGY OF YOUR TRUE FEELINGS
By gently touching Karen’s hands and feet in specific ways we were able to #change that physiological state and lighten her energetic patterns. By releasing some of her old forms this enabled Karen to move through these states quickly and make the changes she wanted.
As Karen sank deeper into the gentleness of the massage, she began to breathe into the new space she was experiencing. Karen began to speak softly of the hardships her parents had endured in their own childhood. She cried gently and often as she remembered the good times and the love she felt for her parents. Karen was sorry for the years wasted and began to forgive people easily and naturally. She felt the expansion within as the old patterns started to unfold and she began to experience new states of consciousness.
As she released the creations of anger and resentment from her past, her true authentic self found room to move. It was in those expanded, vulnerable and open moments that Karen’s ability to forgive began to take on new meaning. Karen then understood the relationships and patterns that had followed her throughout her life.
With a loving heart Karen spent a short period making peace with her own young family. Without self pity, she opened up about her life as she shared more of her self with them, more than she had ever done before.
As life came more and more into focus, the gentle self that emerged, had no connection to the personality that was so wounded. Karen could not hold on to the hurts of this life as she settled within her new authentic, timeless and eternal Self. Karen passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family. END
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