By Kim Uildriks M.A
I always know when something is wrong with me emotionally because I lose my energy. At the same time my motivation to get things done slowly ebbs away and I eventually find myself in a listless drifting space. Even though at first it feels like a comfortable sleepy place to be. I know if none of the things I usually try to do to help myself work, then I need to go to someone to get ‘unstuck’.
I had been in one of those spaces for a few weeks until I made a decision to try Kay Urlich’s gentle spiritual hand and foot massage. As I lay on her massage table Kay focused on my hands and feet gently holding and softly stroking each one in turn in the most compassionate and caring way I had ever experienced. I felt warm and cared for and felt comfortable telling her my whole life’s story. However I did not know what was bothering me and needed Kay to help me find out. I hoped her clairvoyance that arose through her hand and foot massage would help.
After a while of being in a soft and nurtured space while Kay massaged my right hand and then turned her attention to my right foot her clairvoyance came flowing through. “I see you in the water. You are holding on to the side of a boat and you are afraid. You can’t pull yourself into the boat because you are frozen with fear.” She was right to say that I was afraid. I had just had a lot of changes in my life and I didn’t know which direction to take. Time was passing and I didn’t seem to be making any headway. That I had lost my energy could well relate to the degree of my fear. I was thinking it over as she spoke when suddenly a whole well of emotion came up in my chest and overwhelmed me. I felt like crying and tried not to hold back as I felt myself releasing. Even though I couldn’t identify exactly what this emotion was I didn’t worry as I felt a huge release, which was followed very quickly by a deep calmness.
“Ah!” she remarked as the calmness set in. “I see you are out of the water now and in the boat. The fear has gone.” This release was definitely what I had been looking for. It was also something I just could not do on my own.
Kay describes her healing work as a gift she had been directed to use a few years before. She described it as an ability to access the personality through massage. Kay went on to say. “Through releasing emotional tension, whether it is from our past or present lives we are also able to connect more closely with that which we are always seeking; our connection to Wholeness or God” she said “This is our ultimate goal and it is connected intimately with our search for meaning in an often difficult world.”
Kay say’s that massaging the hands and feet involves connecting with past life or inner child and seeing symbolically where some aspects of the personality is stuck or traumatized. The images and feelings I receive may be that aspect of the personality falling, stuck or holding onto a fine spiritual rope. As the massage continues it releases the holding pattern in the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of that persons being. This is done in a gentle non-intrusive way. This is a new modality and not aligned with any other type of massage.
The persons needs, imbalances and traumas, determine which level we will be working on. It will not usually be only one specific thing. It will always be according to what is required for the person at the time.
The healing works interdimensionally and as the energy moves and transmutes, so the picutres I see change. Difficulties with life force, organs, emotional or mental aspects, or whether the person requires assistance healing on a physical level all need to be cleared to enable the finer aspects of the being to come forward. As the energy changes the images help us understand what is taking place within the frame of the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies.
Many of us understand the internal chaos of wanting to heal our wounds. The dilemma is, on the one hand wanting to do this and on the other hand something inside not allowing it. For those of us who are afraid of what we may find, when we have an understanding of what lies within, it will help us overcome our fears and allow healing to take place.